This month, I paid off the loans for both my vehicles! I am debt free!
After focusing on getting out of debt for so long (a few years now), becoming debt free is a wonderful and amazing feeling.
It wasn’t easy — my wife and children and I all made sacrifices. It took perseverance. It took some creativity.
And unlike the common misconception about getting out of debt, it took more than frugality.
Background
Let’s take a little trip back in time and see how I got into debt to start with. For a large part of my early adulthood, I was very careful to have a small credit limit and to pay off any purchases on my credit card immediately. I had an auto loan that I paid off religiously, and later a mortgage that I also paid very conscientiously.
After a divorce, I came out debt free. We had paid off our car loan and credit card, and the mortgage was no longer my responsibility.
Then I entered a period that I like to call “frugal irresponsibility”. I made some bad choices, getting a car loan, a credit card with a higher limit, putting things on the credit card that I couldn’t afford, spending without a budget … not the smartest decisions.
The next period was one where I was crippled with debt, as well as trying to survive on a single income with no medical insurance. This was only recently (within the last few years). I wasn’t making enough to support my family, so we fell deeper into debt.
The most recent period has been my turnaround. I canceled the credit card, and began to live more frugally. I increased my income and saved an emergency fund. This is the part where I learned how to get out of debt. And this is what I’d like to share with you today, in hopes that it will help others struggling.
You won’t be able to replicate what I’ve done exactly … everyone has to deal with their situation in their own way … but my hope is that you’ll be able to glean something from my experiences. At the very least, a little inspiration. And that’s not such a small thing.
How I Finally Got Out of Debt
This hasn’t been the easiest of journeys for me, but I think because of the struggle that getting out of debt entails, the final destination is that much sweeter.
Here are the most important things that got me out of debt:
1. Canceled the credit card. This item always draws a lot of debate, but I’ll say it anyway, because it’s been crucial in getting myself debt free: credit cards are extremely tempting, and with the high interest, they can be downright dangerous. It is possible to use them wisely and even profit from using them … however, most people don’t use them that way, and for people like me, it’s better to just cancel the card. I still had a big debt to pay on the card, but at least I wasn’t using it anymore. Rule #1: If you’re trying to get out of a hole, stop digging.
2. Eliminated non-essential expenses. This might seem extreme to many people, but remember: I have six kids and for awhile I wasn’t making enough income to support my family. I needed to cut back. So I eliminated everything I didn’t need: cable TV, most of my eating out, going to the movies (except on rare occasions), alcohol, eventually cigarettes (once I quit smoking in November 2005), buying new clothes (except when really needed), etc. I slowly re-learned what it was like to live frugally. This was also key, as it’s part of the “stop digging the hole” rule.
See also:
How to Stop Living Paycheck to Paycheck.
3. The spending plan. I don’t like to use the word “budget” because it strikes fear in the hearts of many readers, and blank stares in the eyes of others. Instead, I like the term “spending plan”, because it conjures images of creating a plan to achieve a goal, taking action, and doing something about your problems. Nevertheless, both concepts are essential the same: figure out how much you make, and consciously decide how you want to spend it this month. My plan actually budgets out each paycheck, because a monthly budget wasn’t useful to me: if I only do a budget for a month, how do I know what to pay when my first paycheck comes out? I like to be more specific.
Anyway, the spending plan is essential. You have to decide where your money is going to go before you actually spend it. It was when I was spending without a plan that I got into trouble. And remember: a plan should be flexible, and have wiggle room, because life changes.
See also:
10 Ways to Simplify Your Budget.
4. Cash and online bill payments. One of the reasons I had a hard time controlling my finances in the past is that I was spending left and right with no easy way to track my finances or stay within budget. I was using a credit card, debit card, checks, constant ATM withdrawals, etc. I’m not good at writing down every penny. So I devised an easier way: pay all my bills online (including debts and savings), and then withdraw all the money I need for spending categories like eating out, groceries and gas. I use the envelope system, so that I always know how much I have left in each category. Simple and fail-safe.
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5. The emergency fund. I think this was one of the most important things I did. I know, it’s very common advice, but it’s for a good reason: without an emergency fund, your finances are at the whim of any urgent situation that comes up. Unexpected medical bill? Home repair? Car repairs? Need to travel to see your sick relative? These things will have to be paid for somehow, and if you don’t have an emergency fund, you’ll either go into debt to pay for them, or you’ll sacrifice your debt repayment for this month to pay for it.
Without an emergency fund, it’s almost impossible to get out of debt. For myself, my debt reduction didn’t really start until I had saved at least a small emergency fund (shoot for $1,000 to start with, but at least a few hundred in the beginning).
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6. The debt repayment plan. I like having plans. They’re how I get things done. I created a plan to get out of debt, using the
debt snowball method. I tackled the small bills first, allowing myself to create a sense of accomplishment right away, and to free up some money to pay for the bigger bills. Although tackling the highest-interest debts first is smarter financially, the difference is small and the psychological boost of the debt snowball is huge.
7. Debt is my first bill. In the beginning, actually, saving for the emergency fund was my first bill. As soon as I got paid, I would go online, transfer money into my savings account, and only after that was done would I pay other bills and withdraw my spending cash. Once I had a $1,000 in savings, I began making debt repayment my most important bill, and I would pay those first. Savings second. All other bills third. By paying debts and savings first, you eliminate the common problem that people have when they make savings and debt the last thing they pay: if something else comes up, there’s not enough money left over for savings or debt.
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